About Me

I'm just a survivor, looking to help pave the way for other survivors. A Brooklyn girl, looking to do big things and help make a difference.

This blog came out of from my experiences. As a survivor of Domestic Violence and after recovering from a severe case of codependency (36 years) and a number of toxic relationships, I've decided to help others struggling with the same. I've learned I suffered Anxious/Preoccupied Attachment, where I had such a fear of abandonment, a sense of unworthiness, and the need to feel approved, that I'd not only become involved with toxic relationships, I'd hold on to them for dear life. All while I nurtured, cared for, and treated them with the utmost honor.

I never understood the whys or the how's, and I wasn't seeking answers, until I experienced the most painful breakup I'd ever gone through. When you need to seek therapy after a breakup, you know something is wrong. It was then when I realized I needed to change. Though this was not easy... AT ALL, it was necessary.

Almost four years later, I am free of codependency, have done trauma healing, have forgiven what/who I cannot change, and now I am here as an advocate and activist, seeking to help others in need of support and guidance, to overcome their obstacles.

As a visitor here, you are part of a fantastic community. You will be supported by the most respectful and caring supporters, as well as fellow survivors. Your story matters! You will be heard! You will be vindicated!

Thank you so much for being part of this community. There are plenty of ways that you can become more involved. Join us for our weekly Tik Tok and YouTube lives, for weekly mental health check-ins and Q&A's, share the videos with people you believe will receive the gems of wisdom they'll need, and help give voices to those struggling to speak or have simply been rendered voiceless!